Let Love Lead
Posted by Melissa
I didn’t think so. None of us look like that. All families are flawed—even Christian families. But what makes a healthy family is that Jesus is the foundation, the love is unconditional, and the forgiveness flows freely.
Read Romans 12:9-12, and zone in on verse 10.
What do these verses teach you about how Christians should treat other believers and non-Christians?
What does it mean to “show family affection” to others?
How can you outdo someone in showing honor?
How often do you display genuine love to those you know? Explain.
What does it mean to be fervent in the spirit? Are you?
How have you rejoiced in hope? Been patient in affliction? Been persistent in prayer?
What did God teach you through those times?
There wasn’t a specific rhyme or reason to Paul’s list of love in Romans 12. But one thing is for sure—he started by making a bold statement. I love how the New Living Translation phrases it: “Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them.” What he really means is: don’t be fake; instead, love others like you would your own family. It’s not as easy as it sounds, right? It is easier to avoid the unlovable and dismiss those you don’t like. But here’s what you need to understand: the love Paul talks about isn’t the kind you can produce on your own; rather, it’s the kind that can only come from Jesus and is funneled through you. Stop and ask God to give you that kind of love. Let it be your guide!