Make The Call – Forgive
Posted by Melissa
All it took was one phone call. A minor miscommunication occurred, and before I knew it, the words started flying, the volume began to increase, and the fight was on. I didn’t start it, but I was going to finish it. She can’t get away with treating me like that, I thought. I know I should forgive her, but only if she apologizes first.
Read Philemon 17-19. Meditate on verse 17.
How did Paul want Philemon to treat Onesimus?
Why do you think Paul was trying so hard to bring reconciliation between Onesimus and Philemon?
What did Paul say about how to handle anything Onesimus owed Philemon?
What are some conditions people set before they forgive others?
Paul wanted Philemon to forgive Onesimus. Why might that have been difficult?
Why is it difficult to forgive someone if he or she hasn’t asked for your forgiveness?
How does unforgiveness hurt your relationship with God? Explain.
Paul desperately wanted Philemon to forgive Onesimus’ betrayal and open his heart and home to him again. Paul knew that forgiveness would free both Philemon and Onesimus to serve God together, and he also knew that if unforgiveness were to prevail, then their ministry would be weakened.
If you are a believer, it is your responsibility to forgive others—and to make the first move to bring restoration to the relationship. So what relationships in your life need a little restoration? Are you ready to make the call?